Super Moon means Super YOU!!!!
Well, what does THAT mean…..exactly?
To be the BEST version of yourself. To be totally authentic, knowing your truth and sharing that in any and in every way possible.
It is SO easy to construct our lives for the convenience and happiness of others, thinking of ourselves last. On the surface, we think this is honorable and necessary. However, when we leave ourselves out of the “happiness” equation, everyone actually suffers. You see, we all enter this earth with gifts that are unique to us. These gifts are like the treasure we have within our heart. Extreme authenticity, a knowing of who you are is required, in order to discover what that gift is. The Super Moon provides the energy to help us LET GO of the habits that don’t serve our higher purpose and constraints we have placed on our self that limit our abilities. The energy of the Super Moon allows the opportunity to dig down deep within our inner knowing and “howl” it out, let it rip, sing out loud and be proud of who we really are, not locked inside the shell that we typically show the world due to the expectations set by others.
Did you miss the Super Moon last night? No worries, the strong vibration of this moon lasts for 3 days. So get your “inner-howl” on. Allow yourself to soul search a bit. Ask yourself the hard questions about who you really are, what you really want in this lifetime, and what brings you joy. Don’t worry about what other people think about it! We truly serve each other in this life when we come to this life and our relationships with truth and authenticity in the forefront. The Super Moon reminds us to stand in our power and just be WHO YOU ARE, not what you have been pretending to be.
I was recently asked WHY plank position is such a beneficial pose for kids in school, therapy, home, etc, so I decided I would address the question as a blog piece and hopefully help those that would like to understand the benefits and the precautions when introducing this pose to children.
If you have ever been to an exercise class, you are often required to strike this pose many times. In the fitness arena, it is one of those positions that I consider, “big bang for the buck.” One simple reason (and I use the word “simple” very loosely because there is nothing simple about it) is that it requires so much core strength and activates many stabilizing muscle groups. In this one posture, abdominal and back extensors engage, as well as co-contraction around the shoulder girdle and pelvis. It is the stability of the proximal (middle) part of our physical structure, which gives us the support to manipulate, coordinate and control the distal (arms, hands, legs and feet) parts of our body. Some other physical benefits of plank positioning include increased hand, head and neck musculature. Bearing weight onto an open palm and engagement of the hand musculature is extremely important for developing the arches of the hands which are needed for various grasp patterns. Development of the arches directly effects manipulative skills such as handwriting, tying shoes, zippering a jacket, using feeding utensils, etc. the list goes on and on. Head and neck musculature are challenged when working against gravity in plank. These muscles give us the support to be able to move our head in different directions and planes such as rotation, flexion and extension, which brings me to many of the sensory benefits of this pose a little further down.
Each of our POWER senses are touched in this pose (vestibular, proprioceptive, and tactile).
Let’s start by addressing the vestibular system. This system, located within the inner ear is comprised of 3 semi-circular canals filled with fluid which moves as the position of our head changes. This system is all about movement and balance. It is responsible for our relationship with gravity, our sense of being “grounded,” and our ability to stay engaged and attentive. Since a plank position assists us in gaining control of the head and neck musculature, it helps us to stabilize our head on our body, move our head independently of our body and keep our head/eyes steady as we move through our environment. To fully understand how important this actually is, think of our body as a tripod holding a video camera. If the “neck” of the tripod was weak, allowing the camera to flip / flop without control, you won’t really get great film footage. Same applies here; without stability around the head/neck, the vestibular system is taking in a lot more jumpy, wiggly, unneeded information and trying to process all of it. Much easier to get overloaded, affecting our emotional state and attention.
The proprioceptive system is responsible for keeping us informed of where our body is in space without having to visually monitor what each part of the body is doing. It is a crucial part of body awareness. We activate the proprioceptors located in our muscles, ligaments and tendons, each time we stretch, apply resistance or bear weight against gravity. Plank position does ALL of this, activating our proprioceptive system and thereby giving our brain great information about the location of all the parts of our body.
The tactile system processes pain, temperature, light/firm touch and the discrimination of different textures. Many of the students that I work with are tactile defensive. When they come in contact with different materials their brain processes it as pain. They withdraw and often go into a fight, flight or freeze response. Not very helpful when trying to get their nervous systems into a more organized place. The texture of a mat is usually new, so their tactile system has to adjust, but it is a dry material (easiest to handle on an overactive tactile system). The weight bearing helps to desensitize the tactile receptors, making it easier to accept new sensations through this system.
Sounds ALL good so far, right?
There are some things that you have to be very aware of when introducing and encouraging this posture for any child.
- Can the child get into the posture accurately, on their own? If not, then they probably won’t maintain it correctly either. This can do more harm than good, causing pain in the lower back, shoulders and neck. Therapeutically, there is a difference from being able to ATTAIN (get into a pose) and MAINTAIN (hold) a pose. The latter requires more strength. I am a huge believer in modifying poses so that the child can get the benefits without causing overloaded stress on their system.
A.Plank with your hands on the seat of a chair or the desk.
B.Plank on your knees
C.Plank on your forearms.
These options decrease the amount of weight on the shoulder girdle and the resistance of gravity.
2.How long are you encouraging the child to maintain the pose. I like to count it by breaths rather than time. Starting with 2 breaths is usually reasonable for most children. This reinforces the awareness of breathing through all that you do. This is a great tool for life and it’s about the quality of the time spent, not the quantity.
3.Know the goal, your rationale for using the pose, and let the child know as well. If it seems like a “drill,” most likely the child will REVOLT because it is extremely challenging. If you explain the “why” and your reason is something that the child is invested in, they will enjoy the pose and work to their best potential. And lets face it, that is what we are ALWAYS after:
Helping kids connect joy and happiness with the things that actually support them in their life journey. It shouldn’t be perceived by the child as, “Do this because I told you so.”
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I don’t know when in my life it became apparent that I wanted to work with children. Entering my profession as an occupational therapist, there were many directions, populations and areas for me to focus my studies and my clinical work. I never remember making the decision to work with differently-abled children. But that is indeed what I ended up doing. I guess you can say, I flowed into this line of work. Being around children of all ages with wheel chairs, tubes, machines to help them breathe, move and function, just seemed, for lack of a better word, “natural.” I was drawn to them and in some way, I suppose they were drawn to me. Friends and family used to express their sympathy for these children that I understood on an intellectual level, but never really felt. It never occurred to me to “feel sorry” for any of them. To me, they were just kids, here to perhaps have an experience that we may not have chosen, but for some reason, they have. I honor them for that courage and I am humbled by their profound wisdom.
Today I had an experience that proved to me that their are energetic forms of communication that our raise awareness and connection with these “special” children. My girlfriend asked me to take her daughter to the bus for sleep away camp. We arrived at the designated parking lot with hundreds of other families saying good bye to their children for a few summer weeks. From across the parking lot, I notice a man holding a baby in his arms. Initially, I am not sure why I can’t take my eyes off of this pair. I feel as if this baby is calling to me, “Hello. Hi there. I’m here.” I move away from my girlfriends daughter, just to get a better look. I still have no idea why I am so drawn. As I got closer, I notice, and I immediately know. The extended posture of her head, the fisting of her hands, the rigidity of her extremities suggested the physical body of a child with cerebral palsy. She was definitely energetically calling to me. How do I respond? What came from my heart as I saw her father pull her closer into his chest and then lean his head down to kiss her forehead? “Yes, you are here. You made it and you will be just fine. There is love all around you and obviously very close to you. You are fine. Be well my friend.”
Throughout the few seconds of this interaction, I felt as though I was in a vacuum, consumed by the connection we shared and fully aware of the feeling of peace. Later, on the ride home, I wondered what “feeling” would I have left her with if I did, feel “sorry” or “worry” for her, or her loving parent. Perhaps ‘peace’ would not have prevailed. What message do we send so many of these “special” children when we see them in grocery stores, schools and parks? Do we worry, judge, shake our head, count our blessings? What if we sent them all an “energetic” message of peace, compassion and, “You are fine?”
I am eternally grateful to this child for inviting me into her experience and sharing this communication. I am grateful for the confirmation that there is no need for words in order to be heard.
Love and Light on your journey,
Last night in my Webinar with Donna Freeman from Yogainmyschool.com: Yoga for Children with ADHD, I talked about breathing techniques that work well with this population, and are easily incorporated into the classroom. Here is another idea that I tried out today and had great success with.
I made these bracelets with a group of 2nd grade boys. We have been working on breathing techniques in our sessions together, but when they get back to the classroom, they seem to forget to use the strategies when they need them the most. The TAKE 5 Breath is a simple technique. To complete: inhale for a count of 5, hold the breath for a count of 5, then exhale for a count of 5 and repeat. These simple bands (rubber bands actually), just serve as a visual reminder to use the breath occasionally in class. Since it is on their wrist, it is also with them when they change classes, go to a special and during lunch/recess. It helps them to be more independent with using the strategies that we learn in yoga.
During our yoga time together, we talked about how we feel after we do our TAKE 5 breath. The first word they thought of was CALM. They then decided that they wanted to think of other “C” words that also described how they felt. They came up with CLEAR and CONTROLLED. We put these words inside the bands so that they could remember those too. The other added benefit from having the band: it actually worked as a fidget for one of the boys and helped him to attend during the class as well.
One of the most effective ways to help children see the positive sides of themselves is through “I AM” affirmations. I have seen a child go from a blown-out tantrum to attaining a calm state in a matter of 60 seconds. How is this accomplished???? There is nothing magical that I had done. When they are able to connect to their breath and link it to a self affirming characteristic, they create the change within themselves. Here is a very simple way that I have introduced this into my therapeutic yoga classes for “differently-abled” students. Have the students use a balloon breath with an affirmation that they think of, or read off of a card. Here is how it is done:
1.Standing tall like a mountain, inhale your arms out to the side and up over your head.
2.When your hands meet, say, “I AM”
3.As you bring your hands down to your heart in prayer pose, say your affirming word.
If they have difficulty thinking of something positive to say, below is a list to help the positive juices flowing.
4.Another thing I like to add is having them write down one of the affirmations. This is a great way to practice handwriting and becomes more memorable as well as believable when they see the sentence in their own handwriting. I encourage them to keep the sentence where they can see it, or refer to it on occasion throughout the day. Taped to the side of their desk, or folded in their pocket are 2 options that have worked well.
Kindergarteners are so eager to learn and share their views and ideas. I love getting to bring yoga into their classrooms each week. Although I always plan to bring enriching lessons to their education, I ALWAYS find that I am the one who gains so much inspiration and knowledge from watching and listening to them. This week, my lesson theme was BE HAPPY WHO YOU ARE. We read The Mixed-Up Chameleon by Eric Carle. All of his books are so conducive to introducing in a kids yoga class. The students loved becoming “part of the book.” All of the animals that the chameleon wished he could be where brought to life through yoga poses:
Polar Bear Down Dog and walk around on hands and feet
Flamingo Tree pose with your hands on your shoulders to make the wings
Turtle Child’s pose and rest in shell
Elephant Stand with feet apart, clasp hands together and swing side to side
Fox Down Dog and lift one leg in the air to wag your fluffy tail
Giraffe Stand tall on your toes with your arms reaching high towards the sky
Seal Lay on stomach, arms extended in front of face and clap hands
Chameleon Slither on stomach and extend tongue to catch a fly
There are even eye exercises in the book: The chameleon moves its eyes up and down and sideways while keeping his body still…….in order to catch the fly.
Practice tongue movements, pretending to catch your fly. Move your tongue in/out, up/down and all around.
After we read the book, every student created their own page to a classroom book titled,
THE MIXED-UP KINDERGARTEN
Each student picked an attribute that they like about themselves and then picked an animal that also is like that attribute……such as:
I am happy like a seal
I am brave like a polar bear
I am kind like a flamingo.
I printed out a sheet with 6 positive attributes such as happy, funny, kind, brave,…
When the sentences were done, they became the illustrators as well.
Some other ideas to add to your exploration of this book can be found at
Animal pictures to go with the story:
the children LOVED this lesson…..and so did the teachers. We worked on self-esteem, gross/fine motor skills, coordination, space/body awareness, phonics, reading, writing, cutting, gluing….the lessons are endless.